10 Sexual Techniques
to Change Your Sex Life
If your sex life is not where you want it to be then you need to take a step up in the evolutionary sex chain.
Here is a list of our top suggestions for making your sex life better. These pieces of advice are timeless.
Your approach to sex
all right! It's time to hop into your head right quick and do some realistic thinking. Are you really enjoying sex? Do you really want it to be better? If you are reading this then it is a good chance you are. But…
Are you really doing anything about it?
Sex is an area that is really confusing when it comes to our approach. Everyone acts like you are just somehow supposed to know what to do. Not true at all! For me, sex truly got better after I started STUDYING it.
You drive everyday like you were taught to drive...like an everyday driver. Professional race drivers were taught to drive like professionals. Change your approach to sex by studying. You will become a true sexual genius.
Your sexual planner
Planning sex? Isn't it supposed to be spontaneous? Ok buddy…let's get a grip. Life has way too many distractions to just act like you and your partner are going to:
1. Have time free
2. Not be tired from a long day that was supposed to be short
3. Be to busy de-stressing
I won't even get into the kids, money, social obligations… (I'm going to stop now before I get depressed). You get the picture.
Sit down with your partner and plan some "us" time. On Saturday by 4:00pm you two will take time to yourselves to unwind and prepare for the night. By 6:00 get together and have a good relaxing time. By whatever time feels comfortable let your passion loose like a wild bronco.
Plan your sex and work your schedule. Oh happy day…and night!
The warm up
This is the part just about everyone skips and the results can be terrible. Sex is an aerobic activity. Your heart rate goes up, your moving at a fast pace for long periods of time…I'm surprised it's not an Olympic event.
Do some jumping jacks, stretch, jog in place…take it into the next room if you don't want her to see. Truthfully both of you should be doing it. In the heat of passion we may forget. But stopping in mid-stroke because your back or legs cramped up…
That will kill any chance of enjoying yourself. Proper warm ups allow you to try new positions and angles. You will even last longer without all the extra aches that usually come with it.
Sexual diet
I'm going to say it up front…use African Fly as a sexual supplement. Point blank - it works. But it is definitely not the only thing you need to know about a good sexual diet.
Remember the rule? Don't swim right after eating. The same applies to sex. It takes your body the energy of a full workout to digest a meal. Having sex right after eating is like doing 2 work outs back to back. Your performance will be lower.
For your best in bed you should eat fruits about an hour before sex. Your body will digest the food quickly and give you an energy rush to ride that bronco.
Fantasy Island
Picture the sex ahead of time. What do you want to try this time? Got a new position, location or outfit you want to try? 80% of sex is really in your head. That is why people can have wet dreams.
For some guys this is easy. For the rest of us…go ahead and take a good five minutes with your eyes closed. No masturbating though! That's cheating. You want to keep your body and mind primed for that "father of all orgasms"!
Is everybody ready?
This is a serious question that many people don't think about. Are you really relaxed? Are you prepared to have a good sexual work out? Did you go to the bathroom???
Go to the bathroom!? That's right. Did you let go of that wine yet? It sounds simple and it is. The less pressure you have from your bladder the better. For guys with premature ejaculation issues, this technique will get you an extra 4 to 5 minutes of riding time.
Getting in the mood
Try to remember every time you ever had sex. Go ahead…I'll wait.
OK partner! Come back to reality.
What you probably remember are the times that were special. A hotel room with a Jacuzzi, when you pulled off on the side of a country road, a bubble bath and massage rub down by candlelight. Take the time to get yourself and your partner in the mood.
What do they like? What turns you on? Set up that time to remember.
The body part check list
I have quite a few female friends who give me advice on what they like or don't like about men and sex. High on the list of sexual no-no's…
Stink
Disgusting - I don't feel the need to shower - stink! You have the smell only a mother could love…then she told you to get your own place.
Lotion
It's winter. Dry skin feels…well, dry.
Hair
Especially if you want oral sex. You don't want her to stop every 10 seconds to spit out your pubic hair. Also, your 5 o'clock shadow may be sexy - but scratchy stubble in between her thighs is not cute.
Open your mouth and…
Scream! Shout! Moan! Bark out orders! "…go to your left…Oh yeah…right there…please don't stop!"
These are the words of a person truly enjoying sex. It may not work for everyone…but it is worth it's weight in gold. In the middle of sex you will come across a new sensation that feels wonderful.
Don't waste that feeling by keeping it to yourself. Let her know, so she can continue doing what pleases you.
The scoreboard
How do you tell when your favorite team is winning? You check the scoreboard. How do you tell when sex is getting better? Use your scoreboard.
The scoreboard is really just a sex diary that helps you keep track of what works for you and what doesn't. After using this technique, I found out that eating a spinach salad along with taking African Fly gave me a huge amount of energy during sex. Who knew?
I use my scoreboard to remember what I did during the day that lead up to a spectacular night of sex. This is the secret of all great athletes. Write it down! Was it that new fragrance she was wearing? Did the oil massage get you ready, willing and able?
Don't just trust your memory. Take notes. Keep it handy to review. Treat your sexual education like a degree in college. In the end you will have absolute fun with your Masters in Sexology.
These 10 techniques may sound simple but when you put it all together you can improve your sex life instantly. Don't waste time...try it tonight!
Make every sexual encounter one to remember!
Michael Ward
Fly Zones Staff Writer
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