“You know me. It’s my duty to please that booty.”
– Samuel L. Jackson
The Art of the Sexual Grind
Grinding takes every sexual move you have and puts it into continuous sexual motion. It looks and feels way better than the movies. All you need are the right techniques and some fun practices to become a “Master Grinder”.
Sexual Grinding 101
It doesn’t matter if it is your hands, feet, belly, hips, penis, lips, tongue, teeth, butt…heck – move your hair if that works for you…just keep going.
Most people just get into the thrusting motion. The in and out – in and out technique can get boring and tiring. For longer lasting and more intense sex, pay close attention to this advice…
Being a Hands on Lover
Hands are the anywhere, anytime love machines. Al- ways out, ready and flexible, you can start building up to sex long before the clothes come off.
Touching is highly underrated as a way to get someone in the mood without even looking like you are trying. From the first hug at the door to small touches and taps during conversations, touching gets the juices flowing.
When you are in the bed – that is when your hands really make the difference. When you are not supporting your- self, use your hands to feel as much skin as possible.
Sexual stimulation is an all over body experience.
You will eventually find erogenous zones on your partner that she may have never even known. Pulling hair, touching the face, running your fingers down the center of the spine…go ahead – have fun exploring.
I had one girlfriend who went absolutely nuts whenever I ran my fingers across the back of her knee. Who knew?
Your Mouth Is Where the Money Is
Search and enjoy is the aim when you use your mouth during sex. Whether you are having foreplay, having sex or getting ready to have more sex – your mouth can get the party started.
Try using every part of your mouth. Your lips, teeth and tongue all have a different feel and texture. You can go from a smooth brush of the lips to an intensely light bite.
Pick a spot…have fun. It’s that simple!
A shower of kisses is a way to hunt down the sweet spots on a person. There is even a difference in erogenous zones before and during sex.
Get Skin to Skin to Skin to Skin to…
Grinding all comes down to the sensation of skin against skin. Moving in is the best way to find out what areas are the most sensitive and worthy of further stimulation.
Here is a game to play that is cheap, fun, messy and you already have all the parts. It is called…
Pull out an old bed sheet, grab you partner, apply generous amounts of baby oil to your bodies, put a smile on your face, hop on the bed sheet and start wrestling.
The idea here is not to body slam or even have any penetration. This game is about slipping and sliding all over each other to find out what turns you on! I guarantee you will also find positions you would have never thought about before. You may want to even stretch before you
Just make sure you touch every square inch of each others body.
Bringing the Grind Together
Hard breathing, moaning, yells and a couple of orgasms are going to follow. Playing with that new found sweet spot with your hands, mouth and skin technique while having sex is great, but what you are doing while inside of her makes the difference.
By moving your hips in a circular motion and at different angles, you will be able to find a pattern or groove that feels comfortable and sexually relaxing…
Now that is grinding!
When you get into that groove, resist the temptation to suddenly go faster. You want to take your time and explore that pattern. What if you moved your leg to the left or used a circular motion going to the right?
This is what leads to that all night long sex people are always trying to get to. You won’t wear yourself out and you will enjoy more of this good sex for a longer time.